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Does anyone know what marriage is? Does anyone know what marriage SHOULD be? How would you describe marriage? Correct me if I’m wrong: Marriage is so much more than guy meets girl…finding out he/she is the one…proposal…excitement planning for the BIG day and living together until death do you part. I define marriage as a … More What Is Marriage?
The relations of men and women is quite exhausting (the push…the pulls…the offs/ons). Many would say “tricky”. Its overwhelming trying to filter through the yes/nos, the dos/donts, the ifs/maybes…But when someone places the cards on the table, they’re making it simple. If someone says, “Lets be friends”, do you understand what they are telling you? … More Can You Handle The Truth?
Yes…no…maybe so…(CAUTION!) Mixed signals do they even exist or are they indiscreet (yet loud and clear)? Once upon a time, I would find myself trying to decipher what someone said. (Commonly, this wasn’t me.) After hearing some people say time and time again (that’s why I advise, “be mindful of advice given”), “You’re stubborn”, … More Who Knows (What The Future Will Bring)
It all begins with you. Be yourself. Stop trying to be someone else. Far too often women try to adapt to playing a role that isn’t themselves at all. It’s okay to adopt some beauty and fashion tips from others. But so what if you’re a “Plain Jane”, spice yourself up to your liking. Not … More Enjoy Being Pursued
Compassion. Compassion is being able to empathize and be considerate of another being. If someone is emotionally unavailable, they won’t be able to offer this to you. Self-centered people won’t be able to offer this to you. You won’t be considered as a priority. Your feelings and opinions won’t be considered. Compassion should be … More The Vitamins of a Relationship Pt. 4
Honesty. When we catch our partners lying, we become heated. Yet, we allow them to keep getting away with it. We allow them to tell us, “I love you that’s why I lie; because you can’t handle the truth.” It’s not okay, but you keep allowing them to get away with it. You think of … More The Vitamins of a Relationship Pt. 3
REALIZATION Realize you are two different people. Realize you ARE NOT perfect. Each of you have flaws. But, you can learn from one another. A person’s past environment and habits affects who they are. Realize that the two of you may have been raised differently, but can the two of you override differences to … More The Vitamins of a Relationship Pt. 2
There’s more to having a successful relationship than longevity. Longevity is only a term when there’s no substance. Have you ever seen a couple who’s been together for 30+ years? But if I conducted an interview with both parties (separate), those years withhold more pain than success. We know most people are wooed by the … More The Vitamins of A Relationship Pt. 1
Love is wonderful, that’s what it is. Love won’t subtract from you. It won’t confuse you. Because it’s nothing negative. Love is compassion. Anything less is not love. Love won’t drive you into a pit of darkness. Love is not suffocating. Love is not controlling. Love isn’t one-sided. So how would you know if someone … More Love Is…
Maybe you’re single…Maybe you’re miserable being single…Maybe you’re in a relationship…Maybe you’re miserable in your relationship…Which ever applies to you, never lose your identity no matter your status. Which leads me to say this: DATE YOURSELF! You think that sounds crazy? It’s not. Everything you are waiting for someone else to do for you–Do it … More Dating Me