Mother Before A Wife

*NOTE: Please refer to the disclaimer of this blog before proceeding. Q: Why men mother you before wifing you? Simple–Because women allow it. We’re living in times where everything is pretty much acceptable. These times are perceived as exploration freedom. Sex is acceptable before or on the first date. Women are accepting situationships over relationships. … More Mother Before A Wife

Not One To Wait

*NOTE: Please refer to the disclaimer of this blog before proceeding. Q: It’s been 2 weeks and he hasn’t asked me out. So, I hit delete and blocked him. Was I wrong? Should I have waited a bit longer? Two weeks allotted him enough time to get the ball rolling. He hadn’t even mentioned taking … More Not One To Wait

Dating 101 Recap

Dating can be mind boggling. It’s like sitting on the dock all day just waiting to get a bite on your line. It can be overwhelming seeking someone to date. I’ve heard it all. You can be the good girl, gorgeous, trendy, long hair, good hair, light skin, dark skin, thick or thin…It doesn’t matter. Sometimes it may seem as if you’re caught out … More Dating 101 Recap

Disappearing Acts

Dating is a struggle. Very much so. Just when you think you have made it to first base– You strike out. This is very frustrating. It leads one to believe that they may have done something wrong or something may be wrong with them. Then they go through this makeover process (Editing themselves according to … More Disappearing Acts

Have I Blown My Chance?

Remember Monica’s song “First Night”? Allow me to recap the song: It’s the first date. She’s feeling him. She wonders if he’s feeling her the same. Although these feelings she’s feeling goes against her standards for a first date. She’s overwhelmed by the attraction, but afraid of his reaction (judgement)? Has this ever happened to … More Have I Blown My Chance?

Date Night

The day of the date is HEEEEEERRRRREEEE!! WOOOOOOOooooooooo!! You wake up all bubbly and bright… The long anticipated day has finally arrived. Smile on your face… butterflies roaming throughtout your body and then you think, “Should I call him?” Well, have you spoken to him the day before? If so, then that was the time … More Date Night

Shooting Your Shot

Is it appropriate for women to shoot their shot? Is it considered thirsty? This is a new day and age. To each’s own. Women are making moves. Many of us are very ambitious. We have a voice–So we use it!   I have shot my shot a few times. Why? I liked what I liked … More Shooting Your Shot