I had someone to ask me: “Is there even a such thing as Mr. Right? I’m beginning to think he’s only a myth.” Picture this: The sea is full of takers and time wasters. So, the choice is yours once you make the discovery to toss it back. It’s only as complex as you make … More Red Flags Of Dating Part II
Nowadays you feel like singing in the rain: “It’s a haaaaaapy liiiiiife.” You’re excited that there’s a special someone in your life and they seem to be sticking around. Thing is: It seems too good to be true. How many of you have ever been here before? Well I have. I was at a point … More Red Flags of Dating Part I
Dating is a struggle. Very much so. Just when you think you have made it to first base– You strike out. This is very frustrating. It leads one to believe that they may have done something wrong or something may be wrong with them. Then they go through this makeover process (Editing themselves according to … More Disappearing Acts
Remember Monica’s song “First Night”? Allow me to recap the song: It’s the first date. She’s feeling him. She wonders if he’s feeling her the same. Although these feelings she’s feeling goes against her standards for a first date. She’s overwhelmed by the attraction, but afraid of his reaction (judgement)? Has this ever happened to … More Have I Blown My Chance?
The day of the date is HEEEEEERRRRREEEE!! WOOOOOOOooooooooo!! You wake up all bubbly and bright… The long anticipated day has finally arrived. Smile on your face… butterflies roaming throughtout your body and then you think, “Should I call him?” Well, have you spoken to him the day before? If so, then that was the time … More Date Night
Being mindful is the strategy when you’re seeking intentional relationships. There are women who entertain consistent callers, but haven’t secured a date. Is it fair to reject someone because they haven’t taken you on a date? (Honestly, I have.) As I stated in the last post, “He shouldn’t have applied if he wasn’t date ready.” … More What If His Money Is Tight? (Dating Ideas)
It’s possible you’re looking for love in all the wrong places. Exactly, what are you seeking in a partner? Remember: “Happiness is an inside job.” So, no one is responsible for your happiness but you. Don’t allow anyone to deduct away from it. Yes, many of us are looking for an attractive partner. Many … More What Type Of Partner Are You Seeking?
“Some people are too logical.” (Allow this line to marinate.) Too much “benefit of the doubt”… Too many free passes… Too much “time will tell”… Too much overlooking… If you go in a store and you see these gorgeous shoes, they only have a size 7 and 10 available… You wear a size 9, are … More Stop Allowing Excuses
“When that dark cloud hovers over (Oh yes, that day will come) let’s remember to agree to disagree.” Never argue in your relationship, but you can disagree. There’s no need to argue. What does arguing change for the better? Arguments create resentment. Regrets are spoken in the heat of the moment that can’t be retracted. … More When We Disagree